I appreciate small things that are shared between people:

Thoughts. Laughter. Smiles. Friendship. A hug from a good friend. A strong hand-shake. Conversation. A person's word. Honesty. Trust. Wisdom. Intellect. Eye-contact. Sex appeal. Attraction. Excitement. A wild side. Patience. Touch. Emotion. Passion. Wit. Sarcasm. Humor. Respect. Confidence. Freedom. A great view. Learning from mistakes. Goals. Results. Companionship. Success.

Most importantly, I am a great father to my four year old daughter. Overall, I'm a big hearted intellectual that likes to hang out with close friends. I'm extremely honest, love to talk openly and I'm a good problem solver. I like doing random, spontaneous things. Like a phone call to have a drink, clubs, walks, bike-rides, rollerblading, hiking, bowling... different is fun and it doesn't have to involve alchohol all the time. I'm easy-going and get along with pretty much everyone. I appreciate the small things and hope to find someone that slows down for a walk from time to time. I like being outside and getting my hands dirty, gardening and landscaping are fun to me.

My daughter is the most important person in my life but I also need to take care of myself. I'm not looking for her to be included in my relationships for quite some time as they affect her too. I don't like the idea of her becoming attached and the possibility of something not working out. Time will tell.

In a relationship, I'm looking for an independent woman with intellect, an optimistic view on life, someone that's active, likes to challenge herself, responsible, and likes to laugh. I see humor in everything and I'm a "people watcher"... a fun combination. She should be willing to compromise and be a great listener but if she has a "sexy look" she does... none of that really matters. The whole reason why women rule the world. I think it'd be great to find a connection with someone. I'd like to have someone to support, help attain her goals and dreams, and relax through conversation and touch. I'm a cuddler... yep, I said it. :D

Oh, NOT a big fan of rollercoasters, smoking pot, drinking HEAVILY just to get drunk on a regular basis, and only doing things that involve alchohol all of the time. I'm not a light weight by any means... just want to broaden the horizons a bit more. I like the art museum, zoo, Forest Park, water sports, and snowboarding just to name a few. On a side note... how do people date more than one person at a time if they really want to give things an honest try? I can't do it and I hope you're not one that does either.

A relationship between minds is just as important as the physical relationship. It takes a subtle, ongoing effort by both people to remind the other they are wanted and needed to have a solid relationship. I like to do my part by exploring different ways to appreciate and nuture things. Where's my beautiful girl that isn't afraid of exposing her vulnerable side to get things started?

Stop reading and say hey already... we're wasting time. :D

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I like simple. :D Drinks then a walk to a park bench so you can fill me in on you. The company is more important to me than what we do. Anything is fun when you are with the right person. I am a really patient person too. I think learning things together really brings a relationship closer.

We could or I could show you how to: Rollerblade, ice skate, bike ride, learn about hockey, I'd like to take dance lessons, or I'm happy with doing nothing sometimes too. What kinds of things do you like and what do you want to teach me?