For first dates keeping it 1-3 hours, just to get an idea. Meeting for coffee, tho' I'll have a soda! Meeting at an outdoor mall and 'window looking' and a beverage after. Meeting for a drink and an appetizer. Just simple enough to see if you can not have 'lulls' in conversation, but if you do, which will probably happen, and you're not uncomfortable-that's a good sign!

I'm looking for someone to end up with, long term. Everyone has little things they enjoy-I think your 'other' should want to try and/or be willing to them. I enjoy entertaining, small party with friends, making dinner for two, or social events! I do like watching sports, but love going to the ballgames! Was there when Thome his 500th homerun to win the game! Most music to me is good except rap and opera. All I can say, if you've a sense of humor and are a generous man, let's try!

Just checked my profile. Please ignore below this!! I can't figure how to get it off. Am looking for friendship first and hopefully going to permanent, long term relationship. But!! Not married and doesn't use drugs. So please disregard what's BELOW this!! Sorry!