I like to be active when I have the time. On most weekends you can find me doing something outside... whether it be fishing, hiking, golfing, etc... Skiing and Snowboarding would be my passions .... that's where I really like to push my limits. And yes I think dropping a 60ft cliff on skis is a good time :). On a snowboard, maybe in a few years but I'm not even close yet.

When I'm not outside, I try to get to the gym 3 times a week. As far as inside hobbies, I like to play poker. That's my newest hobby which I do both online and in league. Pool has always been part of my life and I do that a lot with my friends in our local league. I do take my pool pretty seriously but I am always willing to handicap myself for fun ..... shooting one handed for example :).

I enjoy movies but the sorts of movies I really like are the ones that push the limits in a strange sort of way. Donnie Darko, Fight Club, American Psycho, that sort of thing. As for music basically anything except for country and rap.

For my personality, I would have to say that I am very laid back and easy going. It takes a lot to get me riled up. One quote that describes me well is: "Don't mistake kindness for weakness". I come from a good family with very good values even though we aren't religious.

I am looking for someone who is caring, athletic, strong, independent who shares some of my hobbies and most of my values. That someone should not be needy, immature, selfish, etc.... Someone that is honest .... almost to the point of brutal honesty. Anyone with cheating or cheating tendencies should not reply to my messages.

First date could be anything where we could sit down and talk. Coffee shop or a restaurant. Second date could be something somewhat active where we could share one of our hobbies with each other.