Ok im new to this so bare with me. i said bare with me..... i dont wanna friend. Now don't take that the wrong way. Guy's hate the "f" word! . Im looking for the one that can take my breath away. Im honest , loyal like a doggie. ON NOW THE BIG ONE TO ALL; I DONT DRINK AT ALL!!! IT SEEMS THAT it is SOOO IMPOTANT TO PEOPLE. SO AGAIN I DONT DRINK NOT AT ALL. Also i kinda get annoyed that women put in all this love and flower stuff in their profile and when a good guy sends them a message they dont even respond , either delete or ignore it . good goin ladies. Where should i start , umm.. birthday March 15, I'm singel as a dollar bill, i work for the police dept traffic Div as school safety agent. i also work for the ford motor company in Rutherford. Fireman where i am a ex- lieut and capt , also fire photographer . I serve as fire dept photographer several towns in Bergen county. i dont drink (nothing more annoying then a drunk) , i dont smoke. I perfer women that don't also. Love to eat out .food also hehe. I'm pretty easy going it takes alot to get me upset or angry. let's see what else.. I seem to get myself into trouble no matter what i do but makes things intresting. trying to better my career options hopefully i will hear something real soon. my aol screen name "flamien" ladies feel free. I been told i ware my heart on my sleave well i guess so. I get kinda sad easley on the most odd things but i guess its becasue i want the most out of certin things. I am new to this few weeks no real luck yet. do i look that creepy?. Why dont women know where they live ? You live in a town! NOT north jersey, Bergen county area, this one is the best New Jersey / New York ? WTF? Know where you live.