Don't sweat the small stuff...life is much too short!! I believe that you simply have to accept the person in your life because you can't change anyone...but you can certainly admire their qualities. I believe two people share friendship first, then respect, honesty, comunication and a healthy sex life which is extremely important that it be kept alive and fresh by both people for it to last forever. I'm a bit unique in that I have a rule of being open and honest as that is the only way you can build trust with someone...along with friendship...afterall, don't we all want to spend the rest of our lives with our best friend, lover and confidant. I believe that knowing what you want and working together towards that goal is half the battle. I am a sexual, sensual and romantic persom who is looking for someone of the same. I like a variety of music that seems to be growing all the time...as my son is a fabulous musician and is introducing me to something new all the time!!

A first date can be many things...a walk in the park...a nice dinner for two just visiting with one another, learning about the other. A nice afternoon cup of coffee tea or a nice visit over drinks and/or dinner. There are many ways to spend a first date depending on the two people involved. If the attraction and interest is there then we move onto a new path from there.