I'm single, stable, sane, well employed, attractive, fun, have a house, have a car, have my priorities in order and am ready for the next step in my new life. I have been single for almost two years now and left my baggage at the terminal. I seem to be attracted to slim to athletic women.

I'm: not a drinker; do not wish to be with a heavy drinker; the father of two kids and don't want any more; a serious guy who knows how and when to be silly; genuine; honest; a bit outspoken; intelligent with a sense of humor to match my wits; still a boy at heart; a little bit of a bad boy. What you see is what you get. No hidden agendas. I'll tell you anything you want to know about me without reservation. From there you can decide whether or not you want to run for the hills.

I like: vampire movies/books; music (varied and eclectic, leaning towards modern heavier stuff); playing music with my friends; coffee; cooking and entertaining; gardening; fixing stuff (no matter how badly I may have broken it); hanging out with friends; having absolutely no plans most of the time; cartoons - the sillier the better; hitting a softball a country mile; reading... I think you get it.

I don't like: pity parties; selfishness/immaturity; laziness; insecurity; narcissism; anger/hatred; tunnel vision.

My aspirations include being the best father to my boys that I can be, continuing to grow and learn in my career, striving for balance in all that I do...

I'm fine going out for dinner or staying home and playing scrabble, trivial pursuit, watching movies... Not much of a traveler but have made a committment to take at least one trip to a sunny destination every year moving forward.

I have a lot to share with the right woman.

Whatever you want.