Hobbies? okay, until i moved back down to the chicago burbs from alaska Monday was Warhammer 40k night, Thursday is still usually rockband. every friday was D&D night. I bring a chess board to work with me, and have a packback full of assorted card games(chez geek, gloom, lets kill, magic)
i love reading. pretty much has to involve vampires, werewolves, witches, demons, necromancers, wizards, elves, knights, or dwarves for me to be interested; Robert Jordan's 'Wheel of Time', Kim Harrison's 'Hollows', Anne Rice's 'Vampire Chronicles', Weis and Hickman's 'Dragonlance', Salvatore's 'Forgotten Realms', George R. R. Martin's 'Song of Ice and Fire'

i still haven't outgrown my love of comic books

movies; similar to books, but throw in anything by mel brooks, monty python, neil gaiman, terry gilliam, or tim burton and we're good; the Quest for the Holy Grail, Robin Hood Men in Tights, Interview with the Vampire, the Matrix, Blade Runner, Brazil, 12 Monkeys, Fear and Loathing, Ginger Snaps, Dracula, Underworld, The Breed, Perfect Creature, Rise- Blood Hunter, Dracula- Dead and Loving it, Blade, Sin City, Beetlejuice, Batman, Hellboy, Lord of the Rings

Anime; i LOVE anime. i wish my body didn't need sleep so i could get more of it. it's like a drug... i think... though i guess i wouldn't know, since i've never done drugs....Favorites; Hellsing, Excel Saga, Puni Puni Poemy, Pani Poni Dash, Full Metal Panic? Fumoffu, FLCL, Serial Experiments Lain, Chobits, Neon Genesis, Cowboy Bebop, Elfin Lied, Trigun

goals....does trying to figure out what my goals are count as a goal?

music. the top of the list is voltaire, emilie autumn, the dresden dolls, creature feature, schoolyard heroes, skinny puppy, celldweller, and the birthday massacre. thats only scatching the tip though. right now there are some 14,000 songs on my ipod. goth, industrial, ebm, synth-pop, nu-metal, j-rock, and a light sprinkling of punk and alternative mostly

ME; okay, enough of list. me. crap, i always hate this part. i'm really shy. or at least at first. except towards other geeks. i can walk into a comic shop and have a two hour long conversation with a complete stranger. it's happened. if i'm comfortable with everyone i'm around i'm a completely different person. silly, loud and spontanious, as opposed to the shy introvert i appear if i'm not. i place high value on my word. i seriously dislike liars.
i moved back to the northwest burbs from Fairbanks, Alaska last December(07). not to say this is anything new to me; i've bounced back and forth between the two locations most of my life. think i'm here to stay though. if i DO move again, it's not going to be for a long while yet. A friend and i are getting an apartment in april. seriously hyped about that; move out, take #3.

Who i'm looking for; I want a serious relationship, with someone that is happy doing the same kind of stuff as me. i DON'T want any kind of friend with benifits kind of arrangements. my most recent stint in Alaska found me in such a situation with a girl i was crazy about. NOT fun times, emotionally. i want someone i can just lay and cuddle with while taking in a movie or some anime or whatever. hold and keep warm at night. dark sense of humour is a plus. though i guess silly is good too. honest, faithful. once again dealt with opposites before, rather not again. some one that i can dote on, try to protect, and just love

First Date? well being a FIRST and all, scratch movies/concerts, as the idea is to get to know each other a bit. probably just a lunch or dinner and something along the lines of mini golf or ice skating where we could still, oh, i don't know, TALK? lol. or just walking down the road at night with no specific destination taking in the sky (that is one thing i seriously miss about Alaska)