I am a good hearted woman, who is self driven, not controlled. I am able to meet half way no hand outs, do not like to be overlooked, underheard or halfwitted. Lets make it simple, looking for someone who has there own $ and does not need mine. I feel people need to be attracted to one another for there to be a connection. I have learned in the past if there is not a connection at first there never will be. You cant make someone like or even love you no matter who you are, you just have to be yourself, and if they dont like you to bad for them. Life is to short, and none of us are getting any younger. Aint that the truth. So for all of us who dont get responded to at first, could meen there is no attraction.

I would like a simple get to know each other over dinner. If dinner is to much a simple coffee or tea would do.