Someone once told me to never talk about myself when meeting new people, that you should always ask them questions about themselves. To me, this is a catch-22. If we all followed this rule, no one would ever talk! Besides, I like to think I'm pretty interesting so why not share me with other people? I think fun should be a full time job and more people should do it. I love playing basketball and really wanted to reach that professional level except I'm not really that good and I'm really only 5'3. So instead I thought to start a professional scooter basketball league but it hasn't really taken off. I love going to the beach, listening to live music, and just having adventures. To me, anything is fun if the company is good. As far as my goals and aspirations go, I just want to look back on my life when I'm 110 and say I did a damn fine job and boy was it fun! And hopefully whoever I get lucky enough to spend my life with will be next to me saying it's not over yet and let's go cliff jumping in Costa Rica already! I appreciate a guy that can be honest with me but at the same time, be honest with yourself. Have fun, live well, and remember to eat your veggies. Ciao!

First dates are great. No other time can you see two people completely behaving themselves for fear of offending the other person. I say go ahead and offend! If you feel strongly about something, don't hold back. It makes you more interesting and probably the other person will like you even more. Or not. It could go horribly wrong. With that in mind, I think dinner and drinks are always a good idea. Maybe save the romantic horseback ride on the beach for the third date.