I love basketball, baseball, football, bowling, volleyball. I love hunting and fishing. I like doing things outside. I am 43 yrs old white male. I stand 5'9 and 170lbs. I work out and try to keep my body fit. I am looking for a good women for a long term relationship. One that is Honest and striaght forward, as I will give them the respect and be also. Everyone on here is looking for someone, and are talking more than one person. There is no reason to mislead anyone on here, because honesty is very important in a relationship. Most people my age are here because there first marriage has failed like mine. It doesn't matter if was there fault or not, but if you are not honest you are no better than the person that was dishonest in the first place. Most people are looking for someone that is missing in there life. With that being said you need to honest up front. I am not looking for something short term. I am looking for someone I can cherish for the rest of her life. My goals are to be successful at my job. I wanted to be successful in raising my children. I am a Christian father, and I raise my sons in church. This doesn't mean that I think I know everything or that I think I am perfect. I am by far not perfect at all and I have made plenty of mistakes. I have made mistakes in my first marriage and I am not planning on doing it again. I also want to be a successful husband to my next wife. I will love, honor, respect, and cherish her. I believe in being 100% dedicate to my partner. I love a variety of music. I believe in starting out as friends and getting to know each other is the best way to make a relationship work. I don't play games, I think that is childish. I am not here looking for a mother for my boys, but a partner for me. Yes you will be a part of their life, but they have a mother. My boys are a big part of my life and they will be a part of this relationship also. If you have children, I expect the same thing. I love children and love having fun with them. If our kids get involve in the relationship then we are trying to start a relationship. I am not here to hurt anyone, especially children. They are a gift from god and should be be treat with respect. If you make apoint that you would like to see more of me after the initial meeting than, you are telling me that you would like to get to know me better. People are talking about chemistry on her. Well you had chemistry with your first marriage and it didn't work. I am looking for love. Love is forever and it grow day by day. It is cherished and seems to be hard to find, because people don't really know what they want.

I would Take the lady to a nice restaurant. For a nice meal, where we could talk and get to know each other. Maybe go for a walk somewhere so we could finish talking. If we already have talked on the phone and have gotten to know each other a little. I may choose to take her to a game or do something she loves to do.