I was at Sinai Temple a while ago and the rabbi's talk was on the subject of love. He explained that feelings come and go quickly. The Jewish definition of love is actions that are loving, motivated by a feeling of love, over a long term. He said the way to know if your partner is the right one is ask yourself, can I wake up with this person every day for the next 10, or 20 or 30 or more years? I like his views; that's what I'm looking for.

About me: I'm tall, a world traveler, educated, I own my own software business and also have real estate investments. I'm looking for a loyal, intelligent woman who I can wake up with every day for the rest of my life.

I own my own company in the software industry. I can tell you more about what I do but I won't post it here. I love what I do; I have managed to get myself into my dream job. Yes it's possible to do that, even in this economy. I'm not in the Hollywood industry at all.

Anyone who knows me knows that I'm driven by my passion for this business, for success, for my goals in life. And one of those goals is to be with the right woman, forever. I can't imagine anything more wonderful than having a relationship like that, and having children, and being with my partner to form a link in the eternal chain of the living Torah.

One thing to know about dating me, if we're in relationship, you'll need a current passport! I like to travel. I'm planning to go to Hawaii in November (no passport needed for that one of course).

If both the man and the woman have self-confidence, there's nothing stressful or strained about a date. I would certainly prefer something casual; I have many favorite cafes here and I love good coffee! I'm also a world traveler and if I feel a connection, I'm willing to travel anywhere.

I don't want to exchange messages back and forth interminably. If we feel good about meeting, let's meet. If not, back to fishing! Good luck everyone!