I have been there and done that and have raised 3 children and now I enjoy sitting around after work and talking to them while they r still around to talk to. I have a 6 month old grandson who is very ill and spend a lot of time caring for him when not working. So that would be where the patient man would come in handy.
First Date
A first date to me would be maybe a movie and/or diner or even me cooking dinner. Maybe a walk on a nice day. I am very simple and easy to please.