hmm.. so what do i say about myself.. this is like the first day at a new school and the teacher just asked me to stand up, say my name and tell the class who i am.. which kind of always made me feel like :-P anyway my name is john and there is, i hope, a lot more to me than i can reveal in a profile 'about me' section. i love getting outdoors and being active, but i can be a bit of a home body sometimes and am somebody who would definitely enjoy cuddling up on the couch with my girl. don't worry i won't make you watch sports because they're not my thing. of course if you like them, i will watch and route against your team just to bust your chops :-P

when i go out, i enjoy parks and recs, outdoor activities bbq-ing, museums, day trips to places like new hope, road trips, a good comedy club, perhaps some live music, etc.. late at night in my boredom i can be found playing chess against my pc, watching old black and white twilight zone re-runs or star-gazing. i also like alternative healing books such as massage techniques to rid a headache type stuff and at home remedies for the common cold for example. dream interpretation is cool, so is astrology. i don't really take any too seriously; i do find them interesting and entertaining though. aren't i just so exciting.. lol.. now you see why i am here :-P



DO NOT CONTACT IF:
if you're one of those my ex is one of the most important things in my life people; to me that says we have no real future.. i am not interested in you if your ex is your confidant, best friend and most meaningful connection you have.. don't like my outlook here then i challenge you to find a girl who would be cool with her guy saying see ya later going out with my ex tonight... also; being in each other's company is important to see if there's any potential for anything, so i will not spend weeks with emails going nowhere. you can have the best emails exchanges with anyone, but it is all about how you feel in someone's company... if you disagree with this then you just can't handle the truth... "NO GAMES"

ps: i do not use instant messenger. i honestly feel emails are better than a bunch of interrupted chat with everyone on your buddy list. i think more of myself then to be half-assed conversed with and instant messenger is no substitute for an actual conversation, especially a first conversation.. i also don't really want to feel like a dam stalker signing on and waiting to see when you do.. anyway best of luck to all the genuine people out there :-) as for the others, i hope you stub your toe on your computer desk while reading this :-P..

This is tough to say because it depends on the girl. if i am with the right girl sitting in traffic would be fun.