I am looking for someone to spend my time with, share my days with, talk with, laugh with, cry with... My pets are great company, but they are only pets!! LOL I'm looking for someone honest, loyal, understanding, caring, fun, good sense of humour, likes to go out sometimes, but also likes to stay in and watch t.v., visit with friends/family, play a game... I also want someone taller than me! (just one of those things I guess...) I would prefer that the person I am with doesn't smoke, since I quit well over a year ago, smoke bothers me (but if he were the right man, I suppose I would deal with the smoking - just not in the house!! LOL) am I asking too much or being too picky??
** I try not to hurt anyone's feelings, especially in a place like this! If I receive a message from someone who I don't think would be a good match for me, I send a message back saying "thanks for your message, but I don't feel we'd be a good match. Good luck in your search" - I only wish I could get the same respect in return! If I send you a message and you aren't interested, could you just politely say so instead of ignoring me?! Thanks!! :)
I am a family person - I enjoy spending time with my brother and sister and their kids. It's nice when I get to see my own daughter too!! I work as a PSW and I love my work. I am currently in the beginning stages of opening a home for youth/young adults with disabilities. I think I am just meant to take care of people! I love to do the simple things, like making dinner, for people who really appreciate it, not take it for granted. I love to be with people who can make me laugh! Sarcasm is a way of life in my family. Also, very straightforward, sometimes quite blunt. I say what I think, which may not always be a good thing, but hey, that's me!!
some of my favourite things: my family, my pets (cats & dogs), Great Big Sea, Garth Brooks (and a wide variety of other music!), dolphins, warm weather, laughing, learning new things. I really hate winter!
Pet peeves: blatantly stupid questions, stupid people, rude/bad drivers, really bad spelling/grammar (if you don't know how to spell the word, look it up or don't use it!!) ALSO - I don't like when people I have just met call me things like "hun" or other "terms of endearment".
BIG TURN OFF: asking me about sex, talking to me about having sex with me, or any other such personal questions or topics of conversation. All that indicates to me is that sex is all you want, thus, I don't want to know you.
IF we ever got to the stage that sex was an option, that is when you would find out what you wanted to know. In the meantime, get to know ME and let me get to know you.
hmmm... I think I've done okay for someone who is not really good at talking about herself! lol anything else you want to know, just ask and I'll see if I have an answer for you!
meet somewhere neutral where we could both feel comfortable and talk for a bit. if there's "something there" we'll know and then we can plan something further together! :)