-Keep your identity, that's what makes you who you are, who you are is why i like you, not for who you arent or who you think i want you to be. just be you.
-I'm a 20-yr music vet *ooo boy, i can commit to something after all lol*, i can play guitar, drums, bass, piano *sorta*, violin, viola, cello, trombone, french horn and a few others i dont know the names of. I pick em up and whoop there it is lol
-i'm a curious mind so learning is always stimulating, even if i'm learning something i'll never use
-If you're bi-lingual, points in my book.
-LAUGH A LIL BIT! YOUR DAY MIGHT JUST GO THAT MUCH BETTER :D
-I adapt extremely quickly to new things. I'm versatile, resilient, hard to keep down. Go ahead and knock me down, i'll just get back up and eventually you'll get tired of doin it before i'll get tired of getting back up.
-I'm not unbreakable, i'm not unscarred, i'm not dead and im not god. I've been broken, scarred and damn close to killed, but im still here and i'm still smiling :) Lesson learned, what's next lol
-I'm the type to find humor in everything that happens, even on the things that do nothing but make you want to quit.
-I'm a hopeful romantic, not hopeless. I dont sit around whinin n cryin cuz i go to bed alone at night, dont like it but it'll take more than that to hold me down.
-I can be a total sap sometimes lol I've almost been ran over for getting outta my car in the middle of traffic, runnning across the street to some stranger's flower garden and raiding it for the woman that stands next to me, i also almost got arrested once for property theft for doing that lol.
-Im a leader, not a follower, i make my own path in life, but i also know how to follow when needed.
-I'm not perfect, in fact, i'm far from it. Perfectly imperfect is a way i've heard of describing it, perfectly flawed, whatever you choose to call it. I'm happy with my flaws, it reminds me that i've got alot to learn and im not above the world.
-I love laughing, it's the best medicine ever.
-I am extremely sarcastic hehe, i can be a smartass more often than not but it's all in good fun, so if i offend you, good! fire back! i appreciate a sense of humor and quick wit.
-BOLDNESS GOES A LONG WAY WITH ME.
-I can be VERY straight forward and to the point on some things. if you're lookin for someone to sit around and bullsh*tyou lie to you or other wise pretend as if they dont care, maybe i'm not it cuz you wont get any of that from me. If i like you, i'm not afraid to tell you or show you. If im unhappy about something, talking to you about it doesnt make me a wuss, it just means i'm comfortable sharing intimate details with you.
-Sometimes i talk too much, sometimes i dont talk at all, but not because i have nothing to say, sometimes i just like sitting in silence and being able to look at you doin you things or being who you are.
-Who i'm with makes up so much for what we're doing. i can be shy at times but not for long.
-I appreciate honesty in all forms, even if it seems like you're gonna hurt me, it's kool, once a lie starts you cant stop it.
-75 miles or 100 miles or 200, if you're worth the travel, i'd be more than happy to take that trip any time possible. This planet is too small and life is too short to worry about distance. nothing wrong with putting a lil effort into it or takin some time to show someone i care
-SOMEDAY I WANT TO BE MARRIED but im in no big rush to get there...i'm big on being family oriented, i love kids and they love me back, my grandparents are my "relationship idols"...50 years later and they're still together and HAPPY *who'da thought that would happen lol*
-I'm not the greatest lookin guy on the planet, but i'm told im cute sexy adorable incredibly hot or hey if brad pitt and matt damon had a kid i'd be the outcome, and looks do have something to do with it. There's no sorry about it, if i'm not physically, emotionally or sexually attracted to you or vice versa, sometime down the road i/we may end up in a conflict of interest.
-SHOCKER: SEX IS GREAT BUT ITS NOT THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN THE WORLD...there's so much more to a woman than how good she is in the sack! i've never had a complaint but im not like most guys that just wanna f**k all the time....you've got a personality right?? lets see it!
-Im not afraid of standing up to something i believe to be right or wrong, or standing up for others that cant stand for themselves.
-I have a bleeding heart, it tends to get trampled more often than not but i'd rather take a chance and get hurt than sit in fear of being hurt and missing what could have been exactly what i'm lookin for.
-I wear my heart on my sleeve...literally lol i have my actual heartbeat tattoo'd on my left wrist. TATTOOS ARE SEXY BUT NOT A MUST. If you dont like tattoos, i'm probably not your type, i have 16 of em ;)
-I dont want a princess, i want a QUEEN, a best friend, someone i know will be ok without me and even better with me :) a best friend so to speak
-I'm not a knight in shining armor. My armor is battered to hell and kinda dull from being used so much. I'd be a knight no doubt, but a knight that has been out and experienced the world instead of being taught about it in a book.
-Sometimes i just want to look at you. People can speak without words. Im not scared to let you see me doing it either. I dont always have to be talking to have a good time, sometimes i like to enjoy your company, just havin you there is enough for me at times :)
-If you want to know something more in depth about me, ask! even if you think it's a silly question or you think i might find you "weird" for asking... I appreciate women who arent afraid to go after what they want and that arent scared to take the lead from time to time, i can share the TV remote ya dig?
-If you want my heart, TAKE IT, i wont just give it to you.
-i've been hurt in the past ALOT jsut as im sure you have too. You have plenty of freedom to make or break your own way in my world, i wont punish you for something someone else did wrong.
-i start everyone with a blank slate but i never forget what it felt like to be cheated on, lied to, taken advantage of and pushed aside and forgotten. I remember what that feels like, i'll be damned if i'm about to do it to you....
- ---my typical day hehe ;)

a first date depends on who we are when we're together (thunderstorms and days spent lounging around at home with you are just fine with me)....i prefer doing things that two people can do together, although good competition is always a plus :) dinner and a movie is something i hear 50/50 about, some think it's cliche, others think it's a good idea. i think both. things wont always work if you're dating someone who has a totally different diet than you do.
i couldnt eat seafood everyday for the rest of my life but if i see food i eat it lol i love sitting next to someone who i appreciate being able to sit next to, so movies are good, good cuddle opportunity. yeah that's right i said it, CUDDLE....lol i cant take you everywhere you or i'd like on our first date, but i can definately take you places you may or may not have been already. sometimes things wont always play out the way we like, act accordingly, things can become awkward for no reason, sometimes for lots of reasons. being shy isnt a bad thing, i'm pretty good at gettin the ball rollin, but other times i'd like to see my partner in action with them doin it first. takes two to tango ya know?
I sometimes hear a song on the radio that fits a mood...if i like you, i might just ask you to dance with me, maybe even if there isnt anything on the radio at all, we can dance to our own music.
I'm what some would call a hopeless romantic. I pick flowers from wherever i see them if i think you should have it, i like to let my partner know i'm thinking about them with personal things instead of just anything that a woman would like, sometimes with a gift, other times with an inside joke we share on a piece of paper or sometimes i'll do something i overheard them say in a conversation weeks ago..you might not think i'm listening to you but i am, trust me on that ;)
Think you could handle being tossed out the door of an airplane at 10000 ft? I've done it alot already :)
I enjoy EVERYTHING. I have my particular likes and dislikes but sometimes doing something that makes my partner happy by doing it with them, i can make small sacrifices, but dont expect me to want to go get my nails done with you lol i might surprise you with a trip to a spa or just give you a personal massage myself
I AM VERY SPONTANEOUS. i like to plan things out sometimes but most times i just want to be as random as possible.
Best of all, what would you want to do together?? i'm not the only one on the date you know ;) take the lead or sit back and let me blaze a trail, or better yet, lets make one together...i'm satisfied with all of the above :D