I'm a 40's something,honest woman,with a huge heart,and a smoker,sorry if it's offensive--if so pls don't contact those who do, who would enjoy finding my right other half,@ some point& time,who is serious/willing to commit,tired of being cheated on n untruthfullness.I enjoy watching the Leafs,& cold beer,wine on occassion,&variety of music,(top 40,dance,r my favs& some r&b,reggae also. I enjoy dancing,could learn some new steps,hanging @ home,as well as going out too.I have a grown Daughter,not w/me,.but a cat, who is full-time
I won't accept dishonesty,& games,and hope to find someone not much taller than me,i'm in a tiny package
,so i don't want to be climing on a chair to talk to u
I can be a real
@ times,sweet,kind cute&short,what u see is what u get,but most uv all totally real,way too kind,trusting,& honest somex,& tired uv alwyz getting burned. For total fear of rejection(fr: many who've contacted me negatively,(feeling beaten rejected,& unworthy due to the follwing,NO i'm NOT a gold-digger,ect,just gonna be straight,i'm presently unemployed,again,geez,trying to rectify it,still need an occassional nite out,with someone who can accept me for just me,long-term,Lucky u,if willing to take a chance b/f/ judging.I'm being contacted by many who feel i'm a 1 nite,short-term,to cheat w/, ect,if that's what your looking for, sorry pls move on.I get NOT so nice comments bout being unemployed rite now,shallow when men who aren't get our sympathy,whatevr happened to compassion.Geez.I'm tired of trusting,loaning,and being crapped on, hopefully those who have done things mentioned will realize my hurt,& decency, give back what should have been returned a long time ago:When u screw good people over it comes back to bite u in the --- hope they can sleep well @ nite.Which is the reason i turn b``````.. I don't like dishonesty,constant reasons to not show up,being stood-up,or outrite being lied to,too honest to be played.( No i'm not Rude,shallow,ect,just fairly small,so i'm looking for some1 not too tall,thin,heavy-set,ect than myself.Thanks to all that have appreciated my brutal honesty,giving kind words. I've discovered us honest 1's loose out,if people don't appreciate my brutal honesty,told not enough people r, sorry ,i am, n feel it's your loss,but think it's 100% in my favor to do so.I'm not here to pretend or give false hope.Recieving much NEGATIVE feed-back due to the honesty/unemployment status,told people need to b honest,so i bit the bullet & chose to b,hasn't paid off so far.It's gotten me disrespect,bashing,no further than sent messages,t/u for being honest(WTF) i deserve interest also t/u, but guess it's too much to ask for common decency,i have feelings also here,& not the only 1 who's ever gone through this sht in life.Some1 will have the ballz to meet my criteria,& handle me,& my wordz&all,as visa,vera.Finding i'm way out of league for most on this site,givin up a gem,boohoo.Looks r too important on here when the inside counts far more.Looking for a SERIOUS commitment ONLY,better than a 1nite,very short-term,ect. Thanx,& good luck.:bye for now&: n happy:fishing to all:
This is an easy ?/thankgod,takes the pressure off too much thinking,lol.Seriously speaking,i totally love to dress-up,war paint & all,look great to go out,to a restaraunt,sports bar(for a few beer,club,wherevr.Thankz to all responses.Good Luck to all of u in your search.
