I am looking for the Gem other men have passed by because they could not see the true beauty of what it is a rare but perfect Gem for me ,,,,James
my poem ,,,,,,,,.come to me my sweet lady and share with me your time and i shall give you my mind like a garden for you to walk through and see the wonders of my world ,,,,, and if you give to me your mind full of wonders ,dreams wishes and fears i shall give to you my love to wrap around you and hold you to keep you ,,,and if you shall give to me your love so fragile and pure that longs for a place to be safe shall it open my heart like a key for in my heart safe it shall be for it shall find its home deep inside of me ,as i give you my heart so loving and freely , , and if you so dare to give me your heart with out despair i shall give you my soul with every thing deep inside of me all that i am or ever will be shall you have till the end of time from me ,,, and if you freely give unto me your soul with all that you are or ever shall be i shall give you the world and the heavens and all things in it forever till eternity,,,,,,, James;;P2D.

my prayer, may god grant me one woman ,true ,loyal and loving and i shall thank you every day for her and bring forth a good family in your love and light and never fail her heart betray her love or forsake my family Amen

now the next part is a little more in depth about what i am looking for if you have come this far may as well finish ! i say this because at this age the next woman i meet may be the woman i stay with travel the world with raise a family grow old with and die with and i don't want to ever regret a moment or miss a second of life together as a man and a woman' a husband and a wife' a father and a mother 'as lover's' and most important best friends !!
"just a note"
I am looking for the wedding the ring the whole dam thing so if this is not your goal than i may not be the one for you '
I am looking for a woman who does not mind if i suddenly come up to you in the kitchen and start dancing with you to the song on the radio so if you don't want that "drift '
I love to walk every place holding hands and i like to kiss in public after all i am proud of the woman i am with
I love to do special things for my Lady like cooking baking all types of romantic things
I shall write you poems till the day i die for the woman i love will be my muse my everything
I shall support you in what every you do i will be your rock and when life's storms come i shall be your shelter and keep you safe, i will walk behind you in support in front of you to protect you and beside you in your glory
my song of choice to describe what i want is the back street boys As long as you love me ,,the base of witch is and i believe "I don't care who you are or what you have done as long as you love me" unconditional love is the only love to get and give

the greatest line i ever read was a woman who said this was her year she was willing to take a row boat and row after moby****with the tarter sauce in her hand ,,that's the kind of woman i want fearless in her pursuit of life look! DON"T JUST DREAM IT BE IT '

I want a confident woman on that can stand up to a storm of crap ''stand up and stay strong in its face' that's the woman i want beside me' when all hell! breaks loose not one that runs for the next guy because life has ups and downs .If its not going to be worth fighting for together! than why would we be together? united you stand divided you fall.It's so simple yet every woman i have ever met does not understand it.

things i am not looking for or want in a woman and if you fit any of it simply ''drift ''

IF your profile shows you with a drink in every picture ,"drift" closet alcoholics need not apply i am not going to fix your problems you can do that on your own
IF your picture shows you 10 years younger then you are if you need that lie to get a man to look you have my pity but drift
IF you think your gods gift to men "drift"
IF you judge a book by it's cover before you read it don't just "drift" paddle
IF your picture's say one thing and your profile says another lady's truth is a picture is worth a 1000 words
IF you are over 37 and jaded by the past 'hell Don't just "drift" get a speed boat and get going
IF your into head games drama or keeping your pokers in the fire waiting for some one better ,,,i don't think the speed boats fast enough drift far out to sea
as for me I am romantic last of the red hot fools dreamer looking at life in a new way the poet the inner me trying to look at the small but important things about a person that most people over look like the fact that some woman have smiling eyes other vibrant sexy eyes the soft lines of a woman's jaw line the way a person eyes are set the softness of her shoulders the way she walks or stands her hands the look you first see in her eyes when you know you have connected i am a man with a plan i know what i need as for who i date she just has to know what she wants when she wants it and how she is getting there and not afraid to ask for help to get to it for with out help life is hard and all alone life sucks we both don, t need to be smothered but we do need to be supported like 2 pillars holding up a roof together but apart equal with the same goal in life no one person bigger then the other a partnership of friend ship of love and family ... thank you for your time
at the end of it all i want to wake up every day thanking god for my wife this family and my life ,,,,,,James

well let see dancing in the dark making snow angels in the park and dinner on a moon lit night with a long walk to make the mood right or sailing on a summers day to Ontario place , or taking scooters and riding into the country to go wine tasting and a picnic look as long as we can talk get to know each other i am game for any thing