Wat uuuuup! I don't know. What are you supposed to write here. I've written so many different things so many different times. I read the women's profiles and maybe I'm trying to write what they want to hear. That's not to say I'm making anything up, but maybe I'm just making the points I think that want to be heard. You know what? Whatever. Maybe I'm just making this harder than it is. Everybody wants/needs to hear different stuff. I'm just me.

I just can't get into 'I'm a cool laid back guy who likes beaches and sunsets and sushi dinner at dusk on the caribean water.' Yada yada yada, whatever. I do dig that stuff, though, but damn there's got to be something more real and less cliche. Look, I would like to find a woman, a nice woman with whom I'm compatible with. Duh. I've got kids, I love em, they're my partners. I'm a single parent, we've got a million things going on and we've got nothing going on. What do I say? I'm just trying to figure this whole world out, like everybody else. I JUST WANNA HANG OUT WITH A COOL, GOOD LOOKING CHICK! Maybe I do want to get married again, but just not tommorrow. I put dating on here as opposed to long term. I would like long term, but dont you have to start somewhere like dating first? I'm open. Got lots of stuff to do. It is what it is. If you like what you see, check it out. Let's kick it. How else are you going to find out.

I will emphasize a couple of things about me though. I'm a Floridian, through and through, born and raised. I've seen a lot of this state and I love it. I've seen others, I don't like it as much. It's just me. That's not to say I'm a beach bum either (at the moment, there were times back in the day) but given my druthers it wouldn't hurt my feelings if I WERE a wealthy beach bum. Maybe some day. Who knows. I'm a true cancer, through and through. I really don't know what that means except anything I read or have read astrologically about cancers really does sum me up. I dig being a cancer, it feels good. Some people like that, some don't. I can't get away from the water, don't want to. Am who I am.

One last thing, I think, as far as meeting someone and wanting to change them...uh, no thanks. If you want to change me, well that gets complicated. I'm a 'what you see is what you get' kind of person. I'm willing to change certain things and definitely working on changing some things, just at my pace. I'm a very opened minded person and could care less what other people are doing. "If you like it, I love it." I think we all will probably have things we're trying to change about ourselves for the rest of our lives. Who knows? Anyway..... The point is is that I'm a work in progress. I'm working on me and trying to mold two other young men for this world so I really don't have time to be trying to change anybody. I just want to hang out with someone, kick it, have a good time, laughs, you know...enjoy life!

"And now, the rest of the story!"

Take care, Vic

Stole this from somebody's profile: We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly. (Sounds accurate. I think I might be feeling a bit sappy at the moment. I'm gonna ride it out.)


Here is some more possibly useless info.

1. Talk about your hobbies: actually I really like fine, detailed, high end wood-working w/ the right self milled lumber. Other than that I've got two kids that determine my hobbies for me. They (the hobbies, that is) can change a lot depending on their (the kids, that is) moods.

2. Talk about your goals/aspirations: easy one~ man I want to live life being the best person possible, only affecting others in a positive manner, always doing the next right thing, and I want to do all that while always playing hard. Again, ALWAYS PLAYIN HARD!!! Life's good, live it live it live it.

3. Talk about youself and what makes you unique: not for nothin but isn't that all that's going on here on this page. Just an observation, and anyway remember that yours (and everyones) uniquness within yourself/theirself/myself is all self proclaimed when writing ones own profile. It just is.


4. Your taste in music: you name it. I do dig me some FUNK! Funk being a relative term, relative to my mood.

Wow, this is so liberating. Alright, sorry, just trying to push the envelope, didn't mean to cross THAT line. You know what would be liberating though is to...------......-------........-------........----------..........-------------.........-------........ ~I'm just sayin, stranger things HAVE happened.


Dude!?!