A little motto of mine for this site, "actions do speak louder then words!" ;) Please no games, I don't have time for them.

Mutual chemistry and physical attraction is key I believe at first, when finding that special someone. I'm looking to date in the hopes of finding something long term..that special someone to "wow" me! Wanting to feel the passion and excitement...you know the "butterflys in the tummy" kind of feeling, that only comes when you are truly into someone. I really wanna get off this site but I don't want to settle for the sake of just doing so..o.k. so maybe I'm a little picky! Don't get me wrong..I'm not looking for someone perfect, just the perfect guy for me. I'm a kind, caring and considerate person, not to mention reliable as well, it's only fair that I find those qualities in someone too. O.k. I do sometimes tend to run late, but I would pick up the phone to let you know. If you can oversee that fault of mine, we'll do just fine. I am also looking for someone who has the ability to make me laugh..laughter I believe is so important between a couple, and the best kind of medicine. Someone who knows how to have fun, but at the same time can turn around and take things serious when need be.

It is apparently harder then I thought it would be to find genuine, sincere people on here. In all fairness though..I realize there are alot of great guys out there too!

I do have one child (not a house full of them) who is now a teenager.

I'm a little leery of the one pictured guys on here..lol..at the very least then, please resemble your picture :) All my pics are recent ones..so what you see, is what you get. Also, I'm not on here either to chat for endless hours, only to in the end, never meet.

A man who knows where they are in life or where they may be going is my kind of guy..someone that kinda has his act together! Thoughtful and sincere, and again, someone that could make me laugh and smile, is ideally what I'm looking for. A man that I could chat with for hours on end and who easily intrigues me..none of that awkward silence. It wouldn't hurt either, if you were easy on the eyes too ;) Someone hot, yet modest and sweet and funny all rolled into one..lol..

I believe there is someone out there for everyone..even more then one person who you may be totally compatible with. I think you just know when the right one comes along. I'm a firm believer that everything happens for a reason. Message me if you think we may have some chemistry..

The first date I think should be kept fairly simple.. A coffee, drink, and some great conversation and laughs would be my ideal first date. When that first date is over, hopefully walking away from it feeling good about how it went.