Looking for sincerity, honesty and integrity. Also desire someone who stays active, literate and will work on a spur of the moment suggestion to: go to the museums, yard-sales, hiking, snowshoeing, quick dress for dining out, has no problem finding their passport and packing for a quick getaway. NOt looking to deal with someone's closet issues or baggage, my closet is clean, issues are identified, discussed and resolved. i expect nothing less of you. not a serial dater, nor do i care to wine and dine someone who just wants a date - looking for a best friend, partner and lover.

First date would probably be a casual meeting, for coffee, maybe light lunch - this 'first meeting stuff could get expensive, particularly so with so-called 'liberated' women who still expect the man to pay (I am by no means a cheap skate, will spend lavishly for the one that I choose to make special in my life, or for a friend as well).