I'm a beautiful and intelligent woman. I know what I want and what I like and if you're not it, I wont waste your time. I have two daughters ages 14 mths and 5 yrs old. I love watching football and basketball. I like to read, its nice to escape my everyday life and read about someone else. Dave and Busters, Speedzone bowling,skating, walk in the park, the zoo, fishing. What about my man? I need a man that's well balanced, by that I mean, you have religion, you are a thug by nature but you dont behave thugishly everyday, instead you work or go to school everyday. Somebody that could talk like Jay-Z or Donald Trumph. In other words a thug in a business suit. Somebody that's smart with an attitude..... My kinda man right there.....I like a man to romance me, but not allow me to run over him. A man thats honest rather it hurts or not. Somebody that can laugh and have a good time , but knows when to be serious. If he has kids, he takes care of them finacially and he has a major part in raising them....does this man exist????

Seriously if we talk once or twice and/or go out a few times, don't assume that Im your woman. Just by reading my profile and looking at my pics you cannot decide that Im the woman for you and neither can I decide that your the man for me. A real man asks a woman to be his lady after getting to know her better.

I see I need to add some other info about myself. I respect me and I expect you to respect me. Im a lady, in every sense of the word,(not just a female) and Im real. Some men cant handle that.I think its extremely rude and very un-intelligent to curse while talking to a lady and I simply will not stand for that. I want a man around my age and on up to about 31 or so.Im not trying to date my DAD!! If youre close to my moms age which is 45..send her a message @ ladyajb, not me.

A great first date is somewhere we can interact with one another and talk. No dark, quiet movie theater for me. I like to have fun and laugh, shoot some hoops at Dave and Busters,or shoot some pool, a little friendly competiton, a nice dinner, to be honest I love IHOP!!! Lets be different and think outside the box. But definately somewhere I can laugh and get to know you. As long as you treat me like a lady, open doors and dont curse every other word while talking to me, we will have fun. You will love being with me, I know I do!