okay so dude, I was married for 12 years to the love of my life. It ended and I learned a lot about myself and found that my kids and I rock.

I've got my sh*ttogether, I own my own house, i've got a fantastic career. I'm very independent, hard working, loving, caring, and sincere.

I've learned that I really love being in love and I really enjoy deep committed relationships.

I learned that I don't have to settle cause I have curves in places that the woman on TV dont have. I love to laugh. People recognize my laugh...people are drawn to me and want to be near me.

I hate liars, I hate cheaters, I dont want someone els' baggage-so no married guys! No gay guys! I'm totally about that one guy one gal relationship. Communication is key and I believe I communicate well.

I like to drink, not often but when I do I like to party and I like others to party with me. I quit smokin 3 years ago so seriously no smokers. The last two guys I was with smoked and I have to say it sucked for me...the smell sucks and the taste is disgusting.

I love being outdoors and I love enjoying my environment. I love music and concerts and I love my life. I have wonderful friends. I also love staying in watching movies or playing some games.

Miniature golf or something like that-where we can meet in public and just kind of talk and have a fun activity-well see where that leads.