I'm a retired navy musician, now successful in my new career. I'm divorced, now in an open relationship. We were both married a long time (18yrs) and we met "playing". We both have friends still...

I still play in a few bands, mostly on tuba, but bass guitar also. I can play just about anything, from printed music, to chord changes, to just knowing what key we're starting in.. I play bass and treble clef, and learn my "part" very quickly..

I'm a very laid back kind of guy.. no pressure ever.. I'm very much a "pleaser" person, and I love to make my partner feel comfortable. I love a good joke or sometimes the "not so good" ones also.. In fact, my mind is always "twisting" things to make it funny... bizarre sense of humour sometimes too!!

After chatting, we'll meet for coffee/tea/hot chocolate, and chat some more.
I'm looking for a friends first situation, and if there's mutual interest, we'll decide together... never any bad feelings, regardless whether we decide to play or not... :)