I am a single dad with 2 independent "adult" children at home. I am self-employed and 3 years ago I changed careers; I enjoy my work but I also have a flexible schedule to enjoy quality time off. I am in great physical shape, have no baggage, and people find me funny. I have a positive outlook on every situation and prefer activity and smiling to coach potato moaning. I am looking for a fiend and a lover with whom we can share everything with each other - our daily "adventures," life's twists and turns, and maybe a secret or too. There is nothing better than a genuine hug.

I would do whatever my date wanted since I am comfortable in any situation and am there to learn about her. My preference would include a walk (on the beach or with a dog), a drink, dinner, and desert if it looks good. People observing and learning about each other. Going home and talking on the phone after and looking forward to a second date.