Hello thanks for stopping by! I’ve realized that love doesn’t come knocking on your door; you have to work at it. I'm new here, so I decided to put myself out there in the cyber-world; So, I thought I would give plentyofish a shot. I feel pof looks like a good vehicle to meet someone.

I truly believe you need create opportunities in life and that everything happens for a reason and that love can't be forced. I’ve concluded one of the key(s) to successful dating is to focus on enjoyment and friendship. Date with the intention of making a new friend rather than expecting to meet your life partner. You will have more fun and weigh less "performance" anxiety." I hope that makes sense; "Dating overall can and should be lots of fun. Please keep this in mind and you will have a much better time than you think." Ok with that said! Are you still with me? I hope so!

I enjoy being active (a walk after dinner, hiking in the redwoods, dancing, working out, biking, the beach) and taking time for the simple pleasures in life (morning Starbucks coffee, sunsets, star gazing, Sunday brunch out. I get a lot of enjoyment from good times with friends, engaging conversation, laughter, wine tasting, walking on the beach, weekend getaways, my Jeep on open roads, learning, reading, and movies and traveling. Enjoying life, learning, and staying fit (body, mind and spirit) are priorities.

I enjoy my life very much. It is chock full of family and friends. I'm a balanced person - rational and organized, creative and spontaneous. I'm contemporary with practical sense.

I like the simple energy of life and the entire unknown that is right around the corner. It is here that defines his finest moment. I'm certain that if we met it would not be time wasted. I've learned not to discount many things because you never know who you just might connect with. This is an unusual method to meet someone but I am the eternal optimist and have a very positive attitude and outlook about life. Something to think about you Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.

“What the heck!” Never be afraid to shoot for the stars”. Why not? The worse that can happen, you or I say “no” thank you. We move on. So if you believe in your heart “close your eyes for a moment and visualize that one (or maybe more than one) great relationship that you’ve experienced in the past,” And realize that there are many, many people out there who could give you that experience again, if not better. Just remain open to the possibilities.

Hmmm! An ideal first date would be having wine, appetizers and great conversation while listening to music at a nice bar/club. Second date - nice dinner, then some intimate conversation somewhere quiet; Third, Fourth, Fifth, Sixth dates sporting events, wine tastings, making dinner together, just hanging out, whatever. It's all good.