First off...if you do not like bigger women Im not the one for you. Im 5'6" and 215 lbs. I am seeking a playmate. A Friend with benefits type, seeking friendship first, once a good friendship is established it can progress into sex, but only at my comfort level. To me its not just about sex...its also about being with someone as friends, going out having fun for drinks movies whatever, if it leads to sex then it does if it doesnt it doesnt. I dont want to have to feel pressured.If you are not diverse enough to hold a conversation regarding things other then sex, don’t bother contacting me.
I hesitantly became open at my husbands request and it has taken a long time for me to become comfortable with the idea. Things that worry me are disease, fear of meeting a “creep”, Fear that he won’t respect my marriage becoming intrusive and demanding of my time.