Hi, thanks for dropping by my profile. I am 52, (nov 23rd) I like riding my tandum bike at the lake, sailing my boat and looking at Chicagos beautiful skyline from a couple miles out, riding my Harley on a hot summer day and going to my church and helping out people when I can. I have met alot of good people on here and had fun meeting most of them and met a few who couldn't be more dishonest about thier looks and personality! For one reason or another I haven't met someone where we both felt the same way about each other. I like to give more than recieve and help more than hurt. I believe in honesty, even if the truth hurts it's better than lies and deception, I was married 27 years and used to have a big house in the country, 4 kids, a dog, a cat and allways had some sort of farm animal. I worked hard and making money and thinking of myself as a success was a priority, Now I have a little house accross the street from the Kankakee river, no kids, no dog , and my cat just died. Thats all ok because my veiws on whats important have changed, It's no longer striving for what I want , instead it's being happy with what I have,
I believe in God and that when you do good to others and give without expecting anyting in return it will come back to you (Karma)
Christmas day I spent the day at my Uncles house in Orland and we made 2 turkeys, 1 us as a family ate and the other we packed up in my motorhome and went to randolph and lake shore drive where a group of men have been living under the bridge, I took a friend of mine with me she is an exec from Pepsi and lives a couple blocks away from the bridge and knew people were living there. She was reluctant on going and allmost had me drop her off at her building 1st then changed her mind cause she was worried about me doing it alone as all my family in Orland were. We pulled up and I yelled under the bridge Christmas dinner was here and one by one they emerged. They knew me allready because I had brought them clothes and blankets before and told them i'd be back on Christmas day. Rose was nervous and stayed near the front of the motorhome when they started comming in. They sat in the dining room and rose and I fixed thier plates. We sat and talked and ate together then went up to the livingroom where rose passed out coats and blankets and left overs were packed for the men. Afterward I drove rose to her building and went home. The next morning Rose called me and told me it was her best Christmas ever and she was soo glad I took her with me. She said she will too start doing things to help the homeless. Like I said before , I believe in Karma! I'm hoping to find a woman who is like me, Likes to go out dancing, have a few drinks and laugh with friends and enjoy all the good things in life but who also care about other people as well and who most used word isn't "I". It's very hard now days to meet a woman who isn't soo full of herself (Narsisstic) but I don't believe it's impossable

The 1st date would depend on the weather I guess. If it is nice out it would be something involving outdoors.

I know we are all differrnt in our likes and dislikes so it would be something we both enjoy doing.