i am a self contained independant funny serious sanely confused woman in middle life who is not even looking for a mate.....merely freinship and a few good penpals. it appears few of you are and that makes sense this is a dating site after all but if you are interested in honest conversation you will get it here. i say this because one of my penpals has pointed out that few of us really know the truth about ourselves. so male or female looking for chat...if you are isolated or lonely or just interested in throwing out some ideas i am interested in chatting on with you. If you have an unusual lifestyle attitude or personality i am even more interested.

hey if you appear to be walking my path....this involves music events visual art and lazing about in the outdoors, we could end up activity partners. .... perhaps we might go for walks or coffee or a drink to get out and avoid cabin fever, the key reason being that we enjoy the conversation and ideas exchange. this is about no pressure and a lot of fun.. have a great day... theres plenty of fish as they say and we may just strike up something of value. best to you all....kickidee