WOW...Let's see. IF we are DREAMING up our perfect person .......I would say I'm looking for the person that "completes" me. The person I can be "Me" with while you be "You" and have a relationship we both love and enjoy One that comes easy and not one that we have to "work" at.
Simple pleasures in life. AN Example might be.... IF we choose, We could build a fire at night and we could lay outside on some blankets, head to head looking up into the star filled night and wonder together.....while the fire burns beside us.....we can take "coat hangers" and toast marshmallows and reaching back over our heads....try to feed each other by receiving directions..... "over to the right, ... a little to the left, ...down some,......OK thats it"
We would enjoy each other doing anything....from sharing our hopes and dreams while talking....or just sitting together while being "quiet" all the while we are feeling "content"....Knowing we are with each other and thats the way it should be.
Being comfortable in each other's company is a wonderful thing in a relationship. Not having to pretend...or act outside one's element. We can lay around acting silly or being lazy with each other or we can hit the road and travel to places and experience different sites, sounds, & smells together. I want someone who I can sit across a table from me eating a meal somewhere and "Be able to look at that person and just "know" what they are thinking or how they are feeling". Maybe we will develop this cute little sign language or "secret code" between us that "you can smile, give a nod, maybe "wink" at me and I know what you are saying"! I want someone that may be mature..... but doesnt mind acting immature at times. I want you to hop my back for a piggy back ride. I want someone that will slightly embarass others with our antics when we feel a little "playful"
I want someone I can confide in...I want to be able to tell my mate my worries, concerns, fears, and in return, receive compassion, understanding, sympathy, and support. I am a strong man and I dont compromise my moral character but I dont want to be "strong" all the time. I "need" someone that wont mistake my openess for weakness....I want someone who will be strong with me EVEN "for" me when I can't be strong. I want someone who will have a few beers with me and laugh with me (I'm not saying get drunk) rather than fuss at me because I had a few. Someone that likes to be "shown" off to the world. Someone who likes being appreciated for who they are (and what they mean to me). I want others to see and know how "fortunate" I am to have you by my side. I want someone to walk beside me as an equal not ahead of me nor behind me....Unless its during those times when they must lead me or push me!.... I want an equal.....I want you to be MY Friend, MY Lover, My Confidant, My Support, My joy, My happiness, My life. I want Someone that will always have my back....because believe me I will always have yours..... I want Someone who desires to see the "good" in my efforts even when I fail.... rather than criticize my failures, Someone who enjoys my "corny" sense of humor. Someone who can be silly, sarcastic, and serious. I'm looking for someone that will feel as "fortunate" to have me as I am them. I'm looking for someone that is genuine, down to earth, loyal, trustworthy,committed, faithful, and who will be with me because they "want" to be with me. Someone to "motivate" me without nagging me into surrender. Someone to push their icecream cone into my mouth or lips just because it would be funny! Someone who can give themselves to me fully...... yet remain indepedent...I want somone Committed to the relationship, yet free to live their life, Someone mature enough to know "when to" and "when not to" I want someone who will text me throughout the day with some silly message to let me know they are thinking of me. I want Someone who will let me and others notice and appreciate how beautiful you are.......and not have you notice your beauty more than us...I want someone who can look hot in a pair of jeans and a t-shirt but equally hot in an evening dress, I want someone who "doesnt really know" just how beautiful they are inside and out. Regardless of what they wear!! I would prefer someone with a no fuss hair style.....RED would be wonderful, I would like someone who closely resembles "what I have seen all day" .... when the makeup comes off at night....I want someone who prefers cotton panties and PJs over Lace underwear. Someone who can snuggle up beside me and not "talk" excessively.... I dont always have to talk to you for you to know I love you, Nor do you always have to talk to me for me to know you love me
As for as music goes...I am pretty open to any music, sometimes depending on my "mood" I suppose I prefer one genre over another but not really picky about music
I would love to have someone that shares my desire to have a few nice things in life, wants to work to better their home place, work in the yard some and do fix up projects together.... Maybe have a pool at home to have special moments together and with friends.... I love water (I'm a pisces) My goals at this stage in life have changed somewhat. I have my own place, own business, own toys, etc. Now I guess I have become more Health concious and need an encouraging work out partner!!!
What makes me unique is that I am easily "adaptable" to any person. I know how to handle all personalities. I know when to and when not to.....just as I mentioned earlier. Another unique thing about me is I am a Christian man.....BUT I'm not a religious man. I know and understand the liberties I have with Jesus as my Savior so I am not into being again "Under the bondage of the law"... There are many things I will do.......and equally there are many things I will NOT do.
I would love to hear from someone that could fall somewhere into the "perfect" woman request I have laid out. haha...If you are not shallow about appearances but rather want a man that will give you all of himself then contact me. I have always thought the better looking a person is.......the harder it is to hold that person....because others......women or men......will be trying to steal them away!
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