I'm low-maintenance, low-key, intelligent, clean, and neat. While overweight, I don't get out of breath walking a few yards. I can take the stairs just fine. I have american indian in my distant gene pool, and have that broad frame. On top of that I do carry extra pounds, so if you don't like curves I'm not for you. I would probably be considered a BBW. My hair is longer now.

I do not drink, smoke, do drugs or party. I do, however, have a sense of humor, and am not easily offended. I can be somewhat of a smart alec- it just may take a bit for that to come out at first :).
I dislike drama, and I don't like games either. I'm not a big chatterbox, but can certainly carry an intelligent conversation. I prefer one-on-one time or a small group, tend to be uncomfortable being expected to socialize in large groups. I guess I'm a bit of a "homebody", though I certainly don't mind going out and doing things now and then.
My taste in music runs from 50s-80s, mainly oldies, classic rock, 80's hair bands... but I also listen to a smattering of other stuff EXcluding rap, jazz, and most country.

I really miss male companionship, conversation, and cuddling. I crave a good snuggle while watching a movie, having someone play with my hair... I love to be held. I'm not looking for a "really serious" relationship where marriage is the main goal but I'd love a long-term really good friend and companion- someone to care about who cares about me.


I am NOT into: motorcycles, ATVs, sports fanatics (FANS are ok), multiple tattoos, piercings, long hair, rap, jazz, or heavy metal, golf, politics, art, bulging muscle-bound gym rats, pessimism, dishonesty, immaturity, moodiness, foul language, loud or crass individuals.

If your profile sports a pic of you posing with your motorcycle like it defines who you are, forgive me- I will probably not be interested. Same for a pic with alcohol in-hand, or a shirtless pic. Or one with you flashing finger/hand signs...

If you felt the need to "hint" that you have a large income (do you really want someone interested in you because of that anyway?), or if image is everything to you, you're not for me.
Otherwise I couldn't care less what vehicle you drive or what kind of job you have (as long as you have one). I care about what kind of person you are, how you think and behave behind closed doors, or when no one you know is around. I absolutely do not care for people who are out to "live life to the fullest" by constantly running around, grabbing all the latest/greatest "stuff" and needing entertained every minute of the day. That is NOT what life is about. He who dies with the most toys does NOT win.

I firmly believe that happiness comes from within. I am happy with who, what, and where I am in life. If you are unhappy and think that you need someone else to make you happy, please pass me by.


I PREFER: an emotionally mature, easy-going, low-key, employed caucasian/middle eastern/south asian man with good hygiene and a broad and/or tall build, around ages 34-44 (I'm looking for maturity. If you are 45 and immature, I'll take a mature 30 y/o any day), and one who speaks English, not one who grunts! I personally do not believe a person is free to look for another relationship until their divorce is legally final.

I'm looking for someone who is not out to get all the material things he can, who doesn't waste time, energy, and $$ grabbing the latest toy, having the nicest house or car, or chasing the latest fad. Someone who is comfortable with themselves, who doesn't have to be "going", "doing" something constantly, someone who can just relax and enjoy "being", can just lay in the grass and listen to the wind. Or who can just sit and enjoy the smell, sound, and warmth of a campfire.

If that's you, email me. Don't be shy. Nothing ventured, nothing gained :).

Coffee or dinner... I'm open to suggestions.