I think everyone is waiting for the other person to contact them first and hence nobody is making contact with anyone even if they are interested lol
time for a new profile i think so here goes
ME:- i'm a laid back, caring, funny person i have younger children so would like to find someone who understands what that means also have some older ones for free babysitting

- i love music - have a wide taste in what i like - love to listen to live music anything from small gigs to arena and festivals - mostly listen to singer/songwriter stuff - big fan of damien rice, elbow, david gray etc - i play the saxophone tho only for my own fun wouldn't dream of inflicting it on others - i work as an artist painting animal portraits and i'm told i'm very good - my only talent so they could just be humouring me lol - i am an ex-school teacher - intelligent enough to give it up before i went totally crazy

so now the hard part - what i am looking for - i want someone to be my best friend first and foremost - someone who makes me laugh - that understands me (not that easy to find lol) but out of friendship hopefully will be born a wonderful perfect relationship - if you are a little bit wacky or unusual then great - if you can hold an intelligent conversation then perfect
i'm not here to have dirty conversations with men
i'm not here to discuss the latest football results
haha that's whittled them down a bit lol
whittled them down quite a lot i think - no one says hi anymore - maybe a good thing if it has detered a few shallow people but not so good for the ego lol
please feel free to say hi - will always reply - i tend not to message people first - it's not because i'm not interested but because so many don't bother to reply :(
PS i've now sold the mustang so all requests to drive it will have to be turned down

UPDATE:- beginning to think that honesty is not the best policy on here so here goes -
glamourous blonde bimbo - fantastically rich - no kids - loves to discuss the off-side rule in depth - has a garage full of sports cars with no one to drive them wondering how much success i would have with that as my profile
Live within 75 miles.
Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not do drugs
Must not be married