@ this age the dating pool is very small. We tend to rely on work, family or friends to find that extra special person. Well, that hasnt worked for me so this site was suggested to me by a friend. I dont need someone in my life, I want to share life with someone. I would love to find someone who I am compatible with on all levels. Someone to laugh with, someone to hold, someone to talk to, someone to be there through the good and bad times.
I have been on the same job for 22 years. I own my own home and dont live in my parents basement. I still have my hair and feel that I am in good shape for my age group (no big beer belly) Lets take the time to understand each other.

I think talking with each other is the most important thing to do on a first date. If its in a park or even a coffee shop I think taking the time to get to know each other is very important. Walking hand in hand and talking about life, goals and aspirations regardles of where you do it is very important to me.