I want to find the one......I'm not sure who she is or where she is but I want to find the one (don't we all). Life is a journey with no destination, and life is personal growth without any limit, I want to find the one who will grow with me and travel at my side on a journey that will hold so many wonderful things our hearts will overflow. I have the glass slipper, want to see if it fits?

P.S. If we do chat, get to know each other, and I should happen to tell you that I like you, this does not mean that I just want to be your friend, please dont ask me for relationship advice, or what I think about the guy you just met, and I really don't want to hear about how well your date went with the guy you just met. I think that it's pretty clear in my profile that I'm just a little OVER being the "friend" or "like a brother"

That being said read on..............

There's alot of fish in the sea, dont let me be the one that got away.....sounds kind of egocentric doesn't it? Well maybe it is, but my friends often ask me why I'm single. They tell me I have alot to offer a woman, I'm loyal, a good friend, treat people the way they want to be treated, devoted father, engergetic, outgoing, attractive etc etc, the list goes on and on. However here's the reality, I consider myself to be not unattractive but not a greek god, and the rest of what they say is well....TRUE.

I've always had a hard time describing myself, and wondering why I'm still single, I guess when I look at what women ask for and then what they go for when they're out I see two totally different things. Now you women know what I'm talking about, you meet a guy like me, sensetive, caring, polite and kind and you want to be friends, but on friday night at the club you're going after some 6 ft 2 addonis who's had 3 wives, and 4 girlfriends all at the same time. Then when this guy breaks your heart you wonder what the hell happened and how did this guy do this to you, inevitably you call your "friend" and cry on my shoulder telling me how you wish you could meet a guy like me......"HELLO" you already did.

I sit and read profiles of people whom from their pictures or descriptions I find attractive, and constantly see the underlying fact that they all want someone kind, caring, loyal, compassionate, and polite, I have yet to read a profile that says a woman wants a 6 ft 2 body builder that will fight with her for the mirror in the morning so he can look at himself first, will flirt and potentially sleep with anything that has 2 legs and a pulse, including but not limited to her immediate family members and or best friends, and will ultimately cause financial and emotional disaster in her life. Now this is the good part, watch that woman on a Friday night in a club and she'll be flirting with, dancing with, and enjoying the company of a 6ft 2 body builder who's slept with every woman in the club and will eventually get around to doing everything mentioned above.

So.......we're all out here, looking for our dream date, the total package, the "one", but we all have expecations wants and desires. I guess it's time I was just a little blunt and told you mine:

Be attractive: This does not mean that I expect a super model
Be in Shape: You dont have to be a gym rat, but lets at least be active
Be intelligent: I'm not saying PHD, but at least be able to have a conversation
Be Open Minded: This means open to new experiences (no sexual innuendo)
Like To Travel: We're not going to Bali next week but weekend getaways are fun
Have A Sense Of Humor: You should have laughed at least once while reading this

Now you're asking yourself what I have to offer, since my basic personality traits are that of a puppy, loyal, loving etc etc. I'll go a little deeper. I'm the kind of guy who'll walk beside you, take you by the hand and lead you when needed, and stand behind you and let you shine in your moment of glory. I'm the kind of man that wants to introduce you to my friends and share with them your inner and outer beauty. I'm the kind of man who will be proud to be seen with you in public, I'll hold your hand, or give you a soft gentle kiss to let the world know we're together and I'm proud of that. I'm the kind of man who'll make you breakfast in bed just because, bring home flowers just because, take you to a special place just because, open your door and pull out your chair just because. I want an ever lasting courtship that will be fulfilling on both sides.

So I hope you're not bored now with my writing and I hope that I'll hear from you soon.

********************************UPDATE*************************************

Disclaimer:.....This update is a joke, my dry sense of humor, please see the fun in it.

Being myself (a nice guy) isnt working out at all for me so.........

I want a booty call
I'll call you at 1 AM when I'm on my way home from a date and ask to come over
I wont send you flowers
I wont hold your hand in public
When we're out together I'll be looking at other women and even point them out and how hot they are and how you should look like them
I'll make you feel like an idiot in front of my friends, if you should be so lucky to meet them that is
Oh and when the bill comes at the restraunt I'll just stare at it until you pick it up, after all the privilage of being with me should cost something.

How's that?.......now I'm waiting for the marriage proposals to come pouring in

I guess we can figure that one out together, I wouldnt take someone sky diving that wanted to go to wine bar now would I?