Do songs move you? Does music touch your soul and make you cry, laugh, smile, love...???
Listen to "Don't want to miss a thing" Aerosmith, or "South City Midnight Lady" Doobie Brothers, or "Conviction of the Heart" or "This is it" Kenny Loggins, or Anything off of the Netherlands album Dan Fogelberg. Do those really touch your spirit? your heart?
Music is important but not everything...
I learned years ago something that I've done and it worked once. I'm in the process of doing it again. The process is to write (not computer word process) 5 pages about what you want in a person on all facets. Stay positive and do not write the negatives. State what you're looking for: financial, emotional, spiritual, physical and psychological. The more specific the better the results. 2 things happen - you get clear on what you want and you immediately become more attractive to that person mostly because you will immediately be attracted to that person-type and the bio-physical triggers will be stronger. I have also learned a lot about expectations and happiness; I will share this and more in communication.
Who I am: musician, photographer, friend. I take decent pictures ( of nature, people,cars, you, etc. to capture a moment, an emotion, a place and a time to remember), play some decent music (get hired to do it occasionally), am writing, creative, like to ride a dual-sport or a tourer, like convertibles and road trips.

You: positive, motivated and optimistic (at least most of the time-we all have our moments). You affect your 3' circle positively. You are: musical or creative (or one of my biggest fans - LOL), assertive, imaginative and ??? (whatever makes you intriguingly individual). And, more mildly adventurous with a twist of mild sarcastic play/fun.

If you believe/grasp/feel/accept/understand, will laugh at my humor and the rest looks good to you then let's talk.
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PS. The background theme is not about clubbing for me its about the music and the fact that I am working with a team of motivation speakers putting on events. The photos are all in fun and I've been told I look better in person! I am in tune with spiritual / meta-physical understandings / studies in addition to being a catholic christian.
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A cup of coffee or drink of some type is a great place to start, - a walk in the park, Starbucks, mall food court, etc.