I find it incredibly difficult to articulate what important attributes I possess and what attributes I want to draw into my life, that are in another person. Relationships are so dynamic; individual people bring different qualities and draw out different qualities so you never really know what that will look like until you meet and have dated for awhile. I guess at this point it is important to have enough common ground to be able to break the ice, so to speak. Important qualities to me are having a person that has a capacity to truly and deeply care for another. I believe in trust, honesty and loyalty. I want to be the other half of the ninety year old couple that still holds hands when they go for a walk. I am looking for a polished educated person with a myriad of life experience. I need someone who is lighthearted and enjoys laughing, sometimes over nothing at all. I like a man who is masculine but also has confidence to show his softer side. I love a man who can create conversation with people or group he may not know.

I enjoy new experiences, new places, different foods. I believe in a routine to a degree but not being in a rut; therefore being spontaneous to keep things fresh is important. As much as I enjoy a social person, I also need someone who can switch gears and be just as comfortable at home cuddling up by the fireplace. I would like a man that has the ability to have deep conversations so I can gain a true understanding of what he is about and also cares about what I have to say. My other desire is to have someone that has the ability and capacity to resolve issues and move on, being able to build and change from the experience instead of harboring resentment.

There needs to be a spark of chemistry between us; I enjoying kissing and touching. In terms of passion you have to be demonstrative and have a true desire to connect sexually with me as I believe it keeps the intimacy in the coupleship flowing.

I am finally at the point where I can start pursuing some of my interests and I would really like to have a partner for the journey. I like the outdoors and I am taking golfing lessons very soon. I enjoy live entertainment, music, theatre,and more but you will have to e-mail to find out the rest.

I am open to a variey of things.



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