I just turned 40, wow.... I went to college at 34 and graduated in 2004. I have been at my job for almost 5 years now. I love life. I am fun to be around and love to laugh. I am one of those women who always tries to see the positives in a situation. I roll with the punches so to speak. I can go out and have a good time or just hang out at home and watch a good movie. I am a writer and an artist. I have had a few poems published and am hoping to publish my books very soon. I love to sing every song on the radio as I am driving alone in my car. I love all music... I mean all music...I have heard some people say that rap is noise not music.... I even like some of that but some is definitely just noise.... Creative, witty, spontanious, flirty. balanced, fun,sensual, inspired, quiet, reserved, friendly, helpful... ok those are all words that describe me... not anywhere near perfect i have many flaws and weaknesses but some where I am perfect for some one and some one is perfect for me... lets find each other....

A first date in my opinion that would allow the opportunity to get to know a person is going to shoot pool or bowling. It helps with being able to make conversation as you are also doing an activity.so you can always talk about the activity if you are feeling uncomfortable about what you should say. I hink you end up learning a lot about a person in that context. Dinner and a movie is nice. Also breakfast or lunch and maybe a walk in the mall or a park weather permitting....