Goals are big, important that everyone has goals because it will allow you to get past the bumps and obstacles that are bound to come up in any relationship, so until you have "goals" together in a relationship, friendship and the building of structure are important, very......A relationship without structure is a 3 legged table.......Respect is big, honesty, affection, creativity, sacrifice, all big "words" in relationships but all words must be enforced or they are simply, words......My taste in music? I truly am into it all, old public enemy, dubussy, Sade, sting, Foreign Exchange, maxwell......I am single and it will take alot for me to change that, not really into the ordinary girl and I am not a prisoner of my flesh meaning, the need for sex doesnt control me.......

my idea of a good date.....Nice venues make it easy to have a great date, comedy club, nice restaurant etc but I like to start with a Walk at the beach (no for real), an art gallery, some wine bar, not sure, I like to start meeting you somewhere maybe for a smoothie or something easy (you can tell alot about a woman by the smotthie she drinks, lol), it's important to get to know you before we really start the DATE process I guess.....Santa Monica Promenade, Horse back riding, puddingstone part, the beach, a good poetry show or jazz club to hide in the shadows and flirt and play, thats more my style...

Music, is huge, good food, huge, creativity and loyalty, huge......Open mind to new equations and perceptions on what life is about, huge...Are you adult enough to redecision right from wrong if a better answer comes to pass?

Most importantly, I have one son, he lives in Maryland and I love and miss him everyday.

I love Art, neo soul music like Maxwell or Musiq or the foreign exchange

If you want to speak with me, you are gonna have to really work at it and do more then leave a 12 word messages for me......You see, I'm not a dog, not desperate so I can be patient and wait for quality.....I'm not dating at all right now nor have I met one single person on this site! as of 11/2

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Every single profile says, NOT with the drama or don't like to play games, etc etc....What person does? We like drama on TV, only......Women, some of these women want to end up on Maury, its funny, if you think you can date and get to know me while you and your man are mad at each other, you are wrong, it won't work, I require time and passion and sweat from a woman to make it work and I wouldn't ask anything from a woman that I wasn't willing to give.