I'm Pam/Pamela (whichever you prefer). I am a 45 almost 46 yr old woman that is on here looking for the real deal, and someone that would be serious about it.

Recently I've been used, so my ideal type of man is one that can be open and honest, has a good sense of humor, has a loving and accepting heart, and one that isn't afraid to be honest with his feelings.

I have two kids that are my life, 19 yr old (engaged) and a 13 yr old.. my 19 yr old is convinced the right person is on here for me, and she wants me to meet the love of my life.

I have a big heart and I know how to treat a man right. (I like to spoil them by cooking for them and doing cute things like writing little love letters and stuff for them. I'll do anything to make the one I care about smile.) + Laughter is the best medicine +

I want to get to know your heart, and for you to get to know mine. Maybe we'd be a good match.

For a first date, maybe a nice dinner or something would do. Anything where there would be a lot of talking so we could get to know each other.