I am a full grown woman - who knows what I want and where I am going. No girls games here. I dislike drama and stress and am looking for a relationship without those complications. I am very open and straight-forward and appreciate others to be also. I have two daughters (16 and 18), one in college and one in high school, almost got them grown... yippee. I think that women should be feminine and men should be masculine, thats the way it was meant to be. I think the sexiest qualities a man can have are confidence and intelligence, followed closely by a great sense of humor. I am well rounded in more ways than one, so if you like skinny chicks don't look here. I've always been curvy and I like me that way. I like mostly new music (probably because I have teen agers) - with a preference for R&B , slow jams,and some rap. I'm not perfect and really don't want to be - what fun would that be..... If you want to know more you will have to ask.

First dates can be almost anything - totally depends on the person. I do talk a lot, so somewhere where we can talk is always a good choice. Don't worry I do listen too.... hehe.