I enjoy being happy and being around happy people - I don't like being around men who get bitter about laughing and joking around with people - not to be confused with disrespectful flirting........that's not my speed. MEN TAKE IT EASY - As you read the profile know that I love a good laugh just like anyone else and that I'm PLAYING! I'm a smart alec - this site is supposed to be fun ~ go with the flow

About my pic - it was a very special person's birthday - I was goofing around - and there it is. Not a flasher by nature but can be persuaded (wink~wink) as people age they tend to let themselves go!). Ideally someone within the same earning capacity and comparable level of attraction.

Don't take more than you're willing to give, please no "Wimpy" from "Popeye," "I'll gladly pay you Tuesday for a hamburger today."

I have no desire for a handout, i'm not a gold digger, I just want Mr. Nice that knows how to work hard and treat a woman! Really Mr. Nice. The man that will make me cry just because he is nice, the guy that will stop and change a tire, not just for the hot chicks.

I'm no sugar momma either, so please - I'm not accepting applications. There's nothing more unattractive than a man wanting for a woman to take care of him. YUCK YUCK YUCK. Don't be an under achiever with zero ambition, if you're looking for a handout, ummmmm that's called go to prison where you can get three free meals per day!

I'm fully aware that someone has to be at the bottom of the food chain, but geesh TRY HARDER.....don't make it so easy for everyone else around you to succeed. If others are going to be BETTER than you at least make them work for it.......

I won't settle for less than my equal other half, willing and capable of doing their part in an all inclusive relationship. Treat me the way you want to be treated and to ALWAYS consider the other person's point of view and feelings, you don't have to agree with them, but show enough respect to hear them out.

Yes, I have a lot to say....you have to decide if it's worth reading. If you see that I've looked at your profile but haven't made contact....don't read anything BAD into it......I sometimes get side tracked.... you can always contact me.

I'm a SWF Professional in search of compatible and confident friends to hang out with (see where it goes from there with the right fit). Financially and emotionally stable with a very dry sense of humor. I'm an old school rocker at heart. My line of work requires being an adult baby sitter at times and a workplace prison warden (HR). Having said that I'm seeking friends with minimal drama. I believe in random acts of kindness and I believe in what goes around comes around. Pay it forward in life ~ Make someone else's day because they need a break on this crazy journey we call life or, for no reason at all ~ Treat people with respect and dignity even if they don't return the courtesy...unless they're picking on an underdog, then in that case do what you've got to do! Sorry but I despise bullies, if you're a bully, WE will NOT get along.

If you do nothing else in your lifetime, remember to Love People and Use Things instead of Loving Things and Using People. Okay I'm off of that soap box.

I don't want or need to be arm and arm with the best looking guy on the planet....outer beauty fades over time and then you're stuck with what a person is made of from the INSIDE out. Humans are for the most part visual - if you're confident on the inside it will shine through on the outside.

I don't do bars, lets face it if you're bar hoping over 40 it's just sad. Meeting up at a bar with a group of friends or coworkers for a drink or two is one thing, trolling for the "love" of your night (wink wink), ummmm not so much!

Lastly, ask yourself: Would you want to date someone with your character traits, beliefs, and willingness and desire to work on a relationship? You only get back what you put in.......remember that! You can't be a 2 chasing a 10, unless you're loaded and she's an alcoholic, drug addict, or in need of a sugar daddy.

I'm a fun and passionate person with a huge tender heart that encourages me to stand up to the injustices of the world - somebody needs to do it and I'm a leader so it might as well be me! Those who don't know me judge me incorrectly - I have the biggest heart and am compassionate to a fault - and in no way shape or form do I think for one second that I'm all that, I'm not, I know it......I'm just me.

Being my friend comes at a price, and that is to be the kind of friend to me that you want for me to be to you! I moved this to the top of the profile because it's very important to me. Don't let this lengthy profile scare you, they're only words....a lot....but still, only words. My pics are my pics.....the morality police can spare me the comments......boohiss, I don't care about your opinion!

Go FUN or GO HOME! - No stuffy peeps - No shallow guys - No BS - If you don't like my style - keep shopping.......it won't hurt my feelings. Loving Life and my Pics prove it.......I'm not afraid to let my hair down and have a good time.

FIRST DATE:Both of us will decide on a mutually acceptable plan.....and go from there......I believe in going DUTCH at least the first time. I like sporting events, movies, attractions, and really anything that gets me up and moving about...not much of a home body on the weekends.

I'm well versed in the knowledge and can appreciate that not every person who reviews my profile will be attracted to my inner and/or outer beauty (lol). In the same respect I don't anticipate that I'll find every person attractive who emails. If I don't respond, it's nothing personal, we all have an image in our heads of what we gravitate towards. However, don't be shy, bitter, or uncertain, if you feel like responding, go for it! On the other hand given the fact that I wear my feelings on my sleeve if I send you an email, I anticipate a timely reply! LOL It's a joke!

For the David Koresh and Jim Jones types, sorry this lady doesn't drink Koolaid - I decline ALL brainwashing offers in advance. You cannot convince me that you're the Messiah - - I have an established relationship with the BIG guy........by the way he called and he wants his cross back......and he isn't too happy that you stole it!

I prefer taller men (over 5'9"), athletic to average (no BBM- big beautiful men). This doesn't mean I don't find other types attractive. Teeth, yes~please have your own and all of them if at all possible. Drug and disease free, weaned from your mommy, ex-wife, and/or ex girlfriend. Hair ~ a head full or none, no comb overs please (I'm drawn to dark hair, salt/pepper, or bald). If you're the judging type you won't like me, I'm not a cookie cutter Barbie, ~ truth be known ~ there is ALWAYS someone better looking.......

Tattoos? Motorcyles? I like both......

You'll need to have your own career (a real one and not a pipe dream), your own transportation (I have a job - Taxi Driver isn't it), your own money (I'm not a bank and do not expect a government bailout any time soon), have your own life (I cannot be up yours 24/7), have your own likes and dislikes (as in be independent). WHAT? why does this part al