Um, where to start. Basicly here is James in a nut shell. I am a very well mannered, Social gentleman. I am looking for that person to spend my life with, I have had to mature at a much faster rate than most others. I am Very respectful to those who show respect to me. I am the type of person that seems to always get the wrong end of the stick or as all my friends say I get the "shaft". I have been through some horrible situaions and decided to give the online thing a try. I dislike shallow people, I am not a shallow person but do beleive there must be an attraction. But not an attraction focused on looks only. Been treated badly because of that way too many times in my past. I am very interested in Firefighting, rescue work, emergency response, motorcycles, mostly sport bikes. A few personal goals of mine I would have to say are the same general goals of most people. Nice home in a well respected neighborhood, and a nice family. The one thing that makes me unique is my ability to stay such a gentleman in this day in age. And last but not least im not looking to be another persons "friend" I have had too much of the whole "you know your like my best friend" im sorry in advance but if your looking to have a friend or if we meet and your not interested just come out with it and forget the easy let down. I do like to have fun and do beleive that everyone has to have a little bit of fun or all work and no play will make jack a dull boy. lol.

Oh wow the first date is always the hardest. To describe a first date in words is almost like rocket science. You cant have a universal fist date, You must be willing to take the time to listen to each other. Find out what you have in common, and what you both like. Without knowing, that makes for a horrible first impression. So in turn you might never have a second date! ;)