I'm back, did I miss anything? I just started a new job (used to work for Circuit City). It keeps me busy and is exactly what I needed right now. I guess I am looking for someone to share my evenings with and try to get my smile back. Perhaps you can help? Cause I loved to smile. I do have metal and ink, as for exactly what and where you will just have to find out. I admit that I am a little rusty (pun intended) at this whole searching for someone to be with thing. I have gone from 187 to 155lbs since February and feel great. I worked hard to achieve that loss and would love to show it off. I am also taking classes to get my CompTIA A+ certification so I can finally move up in the world. I have one son who is 11 years old and within one shoe size of me now. I warned him that size 14 is the largest that you can buy in a store without special ordering. My former and I share custody. I have been a "fixer" all my life. When I see something broken I will either fix it or learn to. That is probably why I am doing this. . I am a voracious reader with an extensive library and I love my puters. I only have six in the house and one mounted in my car. I am one of those people that get physically uncomfortable when I am away from a computer for long. No, I do not spend all my time looking at porn. When a thought hits my head I like to expand on it immediately. If I wait, I will surely forget about it, and you never know what information you might have lost. As for music I tend to enjoy techno, soundtracks, and speed metal. Nature's perfect food is pizza followed closely by Wild Wok of Hickory's sesame shrimp. Mmmm I do love that stuff and it doesn't impact my diet too badly. Just have to hit the Y really hard the next day. I used to not enjoy working out but since my loss I have found that I like the way I feel and look. So far it has been easy for me to maintain.
A few things to know about my moral code and personality. The difference between a moral man and an ethical one? An ethical man knows when he shouldn't and does it anyway, whereas a moral man knows when he shouldn't and will not. I never make a promise unless I know I can keep it. Promises are very important to me and not to be taken lightly. If I do not think I can keep one then I will not make it. I am an animated hand talker. Hands are one of my turn ons. We are capable of so much with them. Stop for a second and look at your hands. Think of the sensations that they have brought you, of the things that they have done and felt for you. I love building and fixing things so hands are very important to me. I do have a perpetual late problem. It seems that no matter how early I leave or get ready I am late on arrival. Must be some of that "marching to the beat of a different drummer" thing. I believe that lying is one of the most hurtful things that a person can do to another person. I know that everyone says honesty is important but I have found that some believe omissions don't count. Yes they do. Happy or not, full truth, always.
Ok, here are my thoughts on how a man should be. I am the type man that will still open car doors to let you in but a woman should be independent enough to let herself out. I believe that a man should let a woman know he is always there. If you are within arms reach I will likely have a hand on you. If I pass you in the hallway I like to rub my hand across your waist. If we are walking somewhere my hand will likely be on your lower back or holding your hand. I think little things mean a lot. Little notes in pockets, short texts in the middle of the day, unexpected things. A simple touch can change a bad day to good. I guess in short I'm very tactile and still believe in chivalry. If you have stuck through this entire rambling, congratulations. Message me so I can thank you properly. Until then have a large day.

Dinner and a movie would be a great start. Warning, I do tend to talk in a movie if its good. I know that you can't really get to know a person at the movies but you get to see how they act in public and that speaks alot to me. A nice lunch meeting would suffice as well. After that perhaps a walk at the park. Gotta be friends first cause I don't know any other way to be.