first off... you guys really need to smile out there!

I'm thinking it was time I changed this! I hope you all are well, and thanks for dropping by!
I'm currently working full time, going to school full time, and raising a daughter. Ladies, it can be done!
I'm wishing the train would stop so I can get off for a while! I need to slow down. One can never have enough friends, so that's where it all needs to start. I'm not looking for a friends with benefits, so please don't write telling me your sexual fantasies, what you'd like to do, or begging me for mine. It's just tacky. There's a time and place for everything, I think. PMing something like that just because you can shows a huge lack of tact not to mention what should be respect for someone you don't know. Anyway...

I love music of most any kind. Gotta have it around me always! I think it sets the tone for the day and helps it go by better. I love cooking and trying new things, reading good books to work my brain, and doing stuff for others just to see a smile. It's fun, you should try it!

If there was one piece of advice you could give someone, what would that advice be?
Mine: Always give what you hope to get back, or treat those around you the very same way you wish to be treated.
It works for me, pretty well, at least (o:

Love cannot endure indifference. It needs to be wanted. Like a lamp, it needs to be fed out of the oil of another's heart, or its flame burns low.
~ Henry Ward Beecher


Had I the heavens' embroidered cloths,
Enwrought with golden and silver light,
The blue and the dim and the dark cloths
Of night and light and the half light,
I would spread the cloths under your feet:
But I, being poor, have only my dreams;
I have spread my dreams under your feet;
Tread softly because you tread on my dreams.William Butler Yeats

"Nothing defines humans better than their willingness to do irrational things in the pursuit of phenominally unlikely payoffs. This is the principle behind lotteries,dating, and religion."
I'm still trying, though!
~never make someone your priority while you are only an option~

*please treat your children well and don't post pics of them on your profile. You never know what's lurking in someone else's mind when they view you and your pictures.*

~I will arise and go now,and go to Inisfree,
and a small cabin build there,of clay and wattles made:
Nine bean rows will I have there, a hive for the honey bee,
and live alone in the bee-loud glade.

And I shall have some peace there,for peace comes dropping slow,
dropping from the veils of the morning to where the Cricket sings;
There midnight's all a glimmer, and noon a purple glow,
and evening full of the Linnit's wings.

I will arise and go now,for always night and day,
I hear lake waters lapping with low sounds by the shore;
While I stand on the roadway, or on the pavements grey,
I hear it in the deep heart's core. - W.B. Yeats~


"There could have been no two hearts so open, no tastes so similar, no feelings so in unison, no countenances so beloved. Now they were as strangers; nay, worse than strangers, for they could never become acquainted. It was a perpetual estrangement" Jane Austen