I think it's impossible for one to accurately express who they are entirely in an essay, but I'll give it a shot....I work in the emergency medical field here in San diego. I've pretty much seen it all, and thats not an exaggeration. I'm very real and upfront, and unlike most men I'm big on communication. Just to warn you, I'm completely void of shyness, I'm extremely sarcastic, yet not mean. I'll tell you what I'm thinking easily most of the time. I believe in honor and decency without compromise, and I like to think my daily actions reflect that ideal. I'm pretty balanced between the party scene and homebody, maybe leaning a bit more towards the latter. The ability to just kick back and watch a movie with a good bottle of wine is a must. I am well traveled, I've been all over the U.S. and parts of Asia, and as a result have gained a great deal of life experience. I have a dynamic way of thinking and seeing the world that is different than most, or so I'm told.I'm into all types of music as long as there's some talent behind it, although I grew up on punk-rock and reggae so my CD collection includes a lot of that. I like to stay active, I try to hit the gym at least a couple times a week. I read and write as much as I can, too.
Now, who I'm looking for... Kind and relaxed, well spoken would be great. I'm not a real shallow guy, so intelligence and conversation skills are just as important as physical attraction. I'm color-blind, I've dated women of many different ethnic backgrounds, all body types. If I'm someone you could be interested in, drop me a line and we'll take it from there. I'm pretty much an ordinary guy amidst a series of extraordinary moments.... Good luck to all!

A trampoline, an assortment of condiments, a pack of bottle rockets, some eye shadow, and a lack of inhibitions equals a great first date! Ok, Ok, just kidding.... dinner and drinks are always a good way to get the conversation going, or perhaps a stroll in Balboa park around dusk.