First off I just want to say that I haven`t had a serious relationship in quite awhile. I was almost married once and it didn`t end very well. I wasn`t interested in a rebound relationship, I knew right away that I didn`t want to waste a considerable amount of my life by rushing into anything that I was not ready for.
I have a daughter that is pre-teen, I owe her more than she will ever know, having a daughter a has changed a lot of my general daily perspectives, helping me to evolve as a man. So crucify the ego before its far too late. To leave behind this place, so cold and blind and cynical. And you will come to find that we are all one mind, capable of all that`s imagined and all concievable. Just let the light touch you and let the words spill through and let `em pass right through, Bringing out our hope and reason. Before we pine away....


Why I like tool so much....

I have a thorough background in contruction so I`m quite handy and physically fit.


All of us have many layers, some of us choose only to acknowledge some.
I take very good care of myself with the exception of ciggarettes.
My musical interest range from neil young to tool
My movie interests range from Anchor man, hence the username, and the basketball diaries I do like some romantic comedies as well, anything that is well written.
I am looking for a realist, an optimist and in general the type of person that will stop and offer to help someone in need especially when they are busy.

It is very important that I find someone that I can grow as a friend with first, There are many important issues that need my constant attention right now in my life and I haven`t always been pro active so its important that I stay focused while I get a handle on everything. It would be ideal to find someone supportive in areas that I would consider to be weaknesses. I do have a ton of strenghts to contribute that shouldn`t go on unwasted.

It is not very often that I do not connect with people, I have been up close and personal with so many in one way or another, I am the youngest of three boys and have been learning from other people for a very long time.

There is this other side of me that you should also know about too.

I have a childishness about me that can get out of hand, for example once my daughter and I put all of mom`s bra`s and underwear in the freezer two hours before she had to go to work.... not funny to her.
Some of the things that are funny to me most people wouldn`t think were funny, or atleast admit to.
It does represent a big part of my personality, The lightness in the air does help people feel comfortable around others.
What I like to do? well believe it or not I like to work or the feeling of being productive. Yes I still play video games in my 30`s. Gotta have guitar hero!
I like the beach or anything to do with water...THE LIFE FORCE
I work out but not like the governor of KALI-FORNIA.
Telling stories to kids.
I like to let my imagination out of its cage which can have poss and neg effects, no body gets hurt and it helps me to be able to cope with pretty much anything when I use it as a tool when I have to make choices, If that doesn`t make any sense than think of this: When your imagination is always active it becomes something familiar which then can be mastered. Master your creativity it always helps to see the options that we don`t even know exist.
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Everything in our day, seems to be a repeat of some other yesterday however unavoidable this may seem, there are so many choices...walking and talking is good, or a friendly atmosphere, other friends/family. No bars, Restaurants are ackward. Something stress free for both of us.