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just want to start off by saying even though under what im looking for says long term doesnt mean that i want to rush into things it just means that i would like the outcome to hopefully be along the lines of that. just want to take things how they come.
ive been on this site off and on for a while now and i really dont know what keeps me coming back. im not sure if there is many people on this site that are taking it seriously. im NOT looking to find someone for a bootycall, few fun weeks and thats it or to talk to as many people as i can at the same time. im actually a decent person with a conscience and i know how it feels to be interested in someone just to find out soon after you meet that your part of the field hes playing.
i would really like to find someone that can hold a conversation, spark my attention and keep it. someone that doesnt talk through his ass trying to impress me, just be yourself please thats all i ask. liars, cheaters, control freaks please move on. not into the big buff muscle men that flex and pose for the camera, do you really think your gonna pick up a girl by doin so, well the right girl i should say.i think its just gross,nothing wrong with a nice toned body though.but if your actually wanting to meet a good woman and want her to think your a decent guy try having clothed pics up of yourself.
im fun,loving, carin, very affectionate and would do anything for the person in with and i would hope for the same in my partner. and im sorry to say it but has to be goodlookin not drop dead gorgeous but a physical attraction is a must i dont care what anyone says. also please dont get angry if i dont reply to your emails it just means i dont think you and i are a match and i dont feel i have to explain myself to someone i dont even know. take the no reply and move one.
not into the gangsta white boy type, total turnoff or the guys that know they are hot theres a difference in being confident and being c***y and self centered.
LOVE a man in glasses preferably the always stylish thick black chunky frame, facial hair is nice to. i like the 5 0'clock shadow look a lot. i like someone who knows how to dress and takes care of themselves and cares about their appearance.
must be independent dont want someone spongin off me. dont care what your job is just have one, money means nothing to me. im not a gold digger, i can take care of my own.