Ok! I've had it...Are there any nice, secure, financially stable, good hearted men out there? Tall, dark, and handsome are very welcome too! If you're looking for a fun, loving woman who has her act together, then send me an e-mail on pof.com or to gradelessa@yahoo.com. I work full time as a customer service rep for an insurance company. Love my job! My children are grown and on their own. Family is very important to me but I am willing to relocate for the "right guy." Distance doesn't matter if we hit it off so don't let that be the reason you don't get to know me. I have a lot to offer in a relationship. Love to dance, spend time with family and friends, travel, shop, dine out. Always opened to trying new things. Enjoy all types of music, but favorites are motown, tejano, r&b, and hip hop. I am a very positive person. Hope to meet Mr. Right but love to have friends to talk to and/or go out with. No players allowed!! Been there, done that! I have a great sense of humor and a big heart! I am curvy and on the plus side, so if you're looking for JLo, I'm not it but I can lose weight when I set my mind to it. I can take care of myself but would like to find someone that can meet me half way. Looking for a relationship that is 50/50. Somehow, it's always been like 80/20. That's old and tiresome! I love a man who knows how to treat a lady right! Must be affectionate and romantic. Must not be insecure, jealous, possesive, or obsessive. Looks aren't as important to me as what's on the inside although there has to be chemistry! Cleanliness and personal hygiene is a must! Must have a good sense of humor! I love to laugh!

I am easy going and lots of fun! Somewhere we can relax and have fun! Hey, I'm opened to suggestions! I want to do different things. That's why I'm fishing on pof.com. Life's an adventure and I'm ready and able to be adventurous!