I am a prime example that there is life after divorce. For the most part things are very good for me--I'm stable, have a good outlook on life and still adore men. In fact that's the main thing that is missing--a good strong man. Things are just more fun when you have someone to share it with. Whether its longs walks with my little Eskimo dog (and he doesn't count) or watching a sunset. Or jamming to whatever music I'm in the mood for...and I like to listen to a plethora of music. One minute I might be rocking to Sevendust or Staind (when they were rockers and not balladeers) and the next minute it might be Jill Scott or Erykah Badu. You never know--I like to live on the edge ;-). I also, like to travel, dance (gotta shake the junk in my trunk), and watch others cook.

I'm a curvaceous woman who is proud of her hourglass shape. My mouth is not potty--I'm not a swearer. It's just not lady-like to me. Goofy can be used to describe me as can spoiled princess/diva. But those are just a few of the things that make Lil ole me me :).

My ideal match should be very tall, attractive and fun. I'm not hung up on race, so that doesn't matter to me. Someone who likes to go places and do stuff. Heck, maybe even show me something that I've never seen before. You can learn something new everyday. Someone who has similar interests; yet has enough contrast to keep it interesting. He needs to be open-minded, caring and affectionate. Very importantly, he must not be disrespectful towards woman. Women are the world's greatest asset and should be treated as such. He should also understand that when my game is on to please wait until the commercials to talk ;-) and that ESPN rules.

First dates are as unique as the person you're with. So, what I would for a first date would vary. Dinner/Lunch is always a good option. Or maybe something more adventurous for a more daring soul. Life is too short to be stuck in a box. So if you want to go on a first date with me, let's brainstorm and see what develops.