Professional, "real-sized" woman, who is very confident in her curves. Looking to connect with other who are liked minded. I tend to be quite busy in my career, and family life, but I like to chat with others via email or . Only once a connection has been mutually agreed up, will things progress to the next level.

I am very friendly, and great listener. I sometimes wonder if I should have been a pyschologist! I have a knack for helping people talk out their issues, and see a different point of view or resolution....but then you know what they say about free advise.

I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve. I learned long ago that things should never go left unsaid. The truth shall set you free, but first it'll piss you off!!

I love movies, whether they be in the theater or at home. However, nothing better than curling up on a couch and watching a movie while snuggling...or what have you. I'm a very private person and like to keep my personal life separate from my professional life. What happens with Melissa, stays with Melissa.

As for music....don't let the innocent image fool you....I'm still a rocker chick at heart ...plus the hair hides the horns.....for many reasons.......

I'm not looking for a long term, just looking for filler outside my current relationship.

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I try and check mail on here as often as I can, but it may be easier to IM me on Yahoo....Melissakc1a....Be sure and state that you are from POF, otherwise I won't answer you. Email is the same to. Look forward to chatting with you!!

What would I do for a first date?!?!? I'm a woman who knows what she wants and she gets it. I generally don't have trouble getting a first date.....LOL

A good first date for me would be just to meet for a drink or iced coffee. Or just meeting and talking...I really like to listen.....