UPDATE: I found someone from this site and she is everything I was looking for. Thank you PlentyOfFish.com!

My name is Paul and I am just your typical person that is using the world of online dating to find someone that would be interested in me.

I work overnights at Walmart as a stocker. It's not the best in the world, but it pays decent money so I can't complain. When I'm not at work, I'm usually on Facebook/spam or working on anything wrestling-related. I'm a huge wrestling fan and usually try to watch it as often as it comes on. I write wrestling-related columns and am very creative when I come up with ideas.

My friends see me as a kind and gentle person. I rarely hold grudges and I tend to stay away from the "wrong crowd". I don't smoke, but I won't hold it against you if you do. I've been around family smoking my entire life so it doesn't bother me. I can't turn down a drink, though.

I'm currently trying to get funds together to pay off school so I can return and get my Bachelor's Degree in Instructional Design & Technology. I had some issues that prevented me from finishing school and I had to take some time off. I only have at least a year left, but with the economy as bad as it is, I'm not in any huge hurry to return to school.

I know I'm not in the best of shape, but I don't let it get to me. I weigh around 300 pounds, but have been up at 350 during my college days. I dropped to 265, but added on some weight. Everyone I talk to don't see me as "fat". It's not like I wear 4XL shirts and size 50+ pants. Most of the weight is above the waist as my legs are pretty darn strong from working as hard as I do.

I've been hurt in past relationships because it seems that no matter how hard I try to show that I'm a loving person, it seems that my niceness is what screws me over all the time. I refuse to act like a prick. I refuse to be bossy. I refuse to hit a woman. Is it those things that keep me from finding a woman or is it that most women that view my profile get instantly turned off by my photo? I speak the truth...I'm not good-looking. However, there's more about someone than just what they look like. I don't go around and tell anyone negative things about them.

If there's anything you would like to know about me, send me a message and I'll reply with my contact information in case you're interested in emailing/chatting.